Frusterated with Blogger.

Ok I'm a little annoyed. I have feedjit live feed on my blog so I can see who looks at my blog. Well for the last few months there have been so many people from places around the world that I can't even see my friends looking. Everytime I look at my blog the feedjit is filled with new places. I've gone to my settings and have unlisted from searches, "next blog" button and everything else I can think of. I realize that it is a public blog but how in the heck are people finding me if I'm not listed anywhere? I really didn't want to go private because to be honest I hate having to log in when I want to read a friends blog (no offence) But I do NOT like it when I get people trying to comment on my blog just this morning I had to reject someone commenting on corbyns picture, some link to another blog on how to make more money. and followers from who knows where. But yet on my Careys Creatons blog that I have left open to find customers gets NO hits like this. it gets people who have actually searched for a craft or something and came upon it. Does anybody have suggestions? I would email blogger but I just assume all they would say is "well it's a public blog" Anyway I may have to go private but I may just delete he whole blog and be done. I love my blog but I also love sharing my blog with my friends, going private would just be a huge inconvieniance.